29. Am I the Narcissist?

For the Freudian Slip and to support us please go to our Patreon   This week Katie and Helen answer one of the most common question survivors ask themselves. The listener is struggling to understand the relationships in her family and what her part is in the dynamic.  We’re writing a book!! Sign up here […]

30. One Way Street

For the Freudian Slip and to support us please go to our Patreon   This week Katie and Helen look at the relationship between a Mother and Daughter in Law, and how the Daughter in Law is being scapegoated by her MIL for ‘stealing’ the son.  They look at where the boundaries are and how […]

23. Naming Your Poison

For the Freudian Slip and to support us please go to our Patreon This week Katie and Helen answer a letter about workplace bullying, and how a pattern in childhood is repeated with a boss.  We’re writing a book!! Sign up here for more information as it comes! We now have Instagram! Click here to […]

11. The Weight of Perfection

For the Freudian Slip and to support us please go to our Patreon What’s in a name? Katie and Helen have their first fight! (Don’t worry it’s all okay in the end!) This week they deconstruct perfection, answering a listener’s letter about finding her feet with her family in it’s new presentation, and how to […]

1. The Sound of Silence

For the Freudian Slip and to support us please go to our Patreon Our listener this week struggles to vocalise her thoughts and feelings in argument with her husband. Katie and Helen look at why that might be and how it might be changed.  To support us, and for bonus content, please explore our patreon […]

5. Arrested Development

For the Freudian Slip and to support us please go to our Patreon This week our listener struggles to find the boundaries with her brother, 16 years her junior. When he was born she was a second mother to him, and now she’s unsure of what her role is to him. Katie and Helen look […]

16. Smoke and Mirrors

For the Freudian Slip and to support us please go to our Patreon   This week it’s all about the smoke and mirrors the narcissistic parent uses to control and dominate their children. We look at their self awareness and how they use the little they have to manipulate those around them.  This week’s episode […]

24. Double Edged Sword

For the Freudian Slip and to support us please go to our Patreon This week Katie and Helen answer the question ‘can two narcissists marry?’ and what that looks like. We look at what happens when one parent is loudly abusive, and when the other is quietly so.  TRIGGER WARNING: This episode discusses suicide. We’re […]

26. The Cost of No

For the Freudian Slip and to support us please go to our Patreon How can one little boundary spark total abandonment? This week our listener asks whether to tolerate her mother’s behaviour for the sake of her young son, after her mother abandoned her for saying no.  We’re writing a book!! Sign up here for […]

9. The Painful Truth

For the Freudian Slip and to support us please go to our Patreon   This week Katie and Helen discuss the impact of growing up with a parent who doesn’t allow any emotional responses that aren’t aligned with their own; and discuss the right to be angry. To support us, and for bonus content, please […]