82. When is an Enabler an Abuser?

This week our listener tells the story of her mother stalking her son, her brother and father enabling it and asks ‘is there any hope of a relationship with my brother or son?’, and how to help her golden […]

80. What If She Isn’t A Narcissist?

This week our listener’s mother seems to be changing. Taking responsibility, apologising, and listening to all the listener’s complaints. So was she ever toxic, or has our listener been wrong about her all along? Listen to Katie and Helen […]

77. (4) Autism or Narcissism?

This week Helen & Katie are on holiday so over the next two weeks are sharing their favourite episodes. This week it’s Helen’s turn, episode 4 –  Autism or Narcissism Listen to Katie and Helen look at this difficult […]

78. (25) Poisonous Breadcrumbs

This week Helen & Katie are on holiday so over the next two weeks are sharing their favourite episodes. This week it’s Katie’s turn, episode 25 – Poisonous Breadcrumbs This week Katie and Helen look at the difference between […]

73. Am I Working with a Narcissist?

This week our listener tries to understand her colleague’s behaviour and what she can do to manage the situation.  Listen to Katie and Helen look at this difficult situation from all angles and offer their insight into what’s going […]

68. How Do I Stay in Contact and Protect Myself?

This week our listener wants to try and keep a relationship with her mum and grandma, but after a life of boundaries being broken, emotional abuse, a sister who has gone no contact, is it possible to do so […]

69. Am I Being Two Faced?

This week our listener struggles to know if she’s being two faced for taking financial support from her mum despite having strong feelings about the way her mum has treated her.  Listen to Katie and Helen look at this […]

71. Is She As Guilty As Him?

This week our listener asks if she should go no contact with her enabling mum. But is mum an enabler, or is something else going on? Listen to Katie and Helen look at this difficult situation from all angles […]

63. Should I have more sympathy?

This week our listener asks Katie and Helen to untangle the confusing feelings she has towards her mother in the wake of her father’s death. How can she feel such anger and such love at the same time? Was […]