84. Who’s Responsible? Me or Dad?

What do you do when your narcissistic mother is showing signs of dementia but your enabling father refuses to take her to the doctor? Should you step in and give up your boundaries and potentially suffer the wrath of […]

83. Should I Ghost my Mum?

This week our listener was abused by her mother, and now realises her mother is abusing her son. She asks how to go no contact? Should she explain or should she just ghost her? Listen to Katie and Helen […]

82. When is an Enabler an Abuser?

This week our listener tells the story of her mother stalking her son, her brother and father enabling it and asks ‘is there any hope of a relationship with my brother or son?’, and how to help her golden […]

80. What If She Isn’t A Narcissist?

This week our listener’s mother seems to be changing. Taking responsibility, apologising, and listening to all the listener’s complaints. So was she ever toxic, or has our listener been wrong about her all along? Listen to Katie and Helen […]

77. (4) Autism or Narcissism?

This week Helen & Katie are on holiday so over the next two weeks are sharing their favourite episodes. This week it’s Helen’s turn, episode 4 –  Autism or Narcissism Listen to Katie and Helen look at this difficult […]

78. (25) Poisonous Breadcrumbs

This week Helen & Katie are on holiday so over the next two weeks are sharing their favourite episodes. This week it’s Katie’s turn, episode 25 – Poisonous Breadcrumbs This week Katie and Helen look at the difference between […]

73. Am I Working with a Narcissist?

This week our listener tries to understand her colleague’s behaviour and what she can do to manage the situation.  Listen to Katie and Helen look at this difficult situation from all angles and offer their insight into what’s going […]

68. How Do I Stay in Contact and Protect Myself?

This week our listener wants to try and keep a relationship with her mum and grandma, but after a life of boundaries being broken, emotional abuse, a sister who has gone no contact, is it possible to do so […]

69. Am I Being Two Faced?

This week our listener struggles to know if she’s being two faced for taking financial support from her mum despite having strong feelings about the way her mum has treated her.  Listen to Katie and Helen look at this […]